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Luke and his wife Trisha blog at IntoxicatedOnLife. If recent surveys are any indication, porn use has become the norm among men, not the exception. Still, I get a lot of questions from women who are feeling the heartbreaking impact of porn on their marriages.

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To them porn feels like cheatingand for good reason. That would be cheating on my wife.

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I assume no one would debate me on this point. Weird, I know. But just go with it.

Would that be cheating? Both in this case and in the case I am seeking the services of a prostituted woman for sexual pleasure—seeking out and enjoying the body of a woman who is not my wife in order to be sexually gratified. Is this cheating? Has the lack of physical proximity suddenly changed the situation that it is no longer breaking my marriage vow? Is this still cheating? Am I now suddenly remaining faithful to my marriage vows because someone hit the record button?

Her pimp—I mean, agent—pays taxes and everything. Totally legit. Does the change in title and the veneer of professionalism change the nature of the act?

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Much like walking into a brothel, I can pick the woman I want when I want, pay my fee, and enjoy her body for my lustful purposes. What about the industrialized nature of the product changes the nature of the act? And on this last step we have arrived at what the modern porn industry is.

This is why using pornography is cheating.

I can hear the screeching of mental breaks right about now. Something major has shifted between the first scenario and the last. No one sees porn as digital prostitution. If this was the way our culture understood porn, it might be one thing.

This is a good objection. After all, motive and intention count for something when it comes to the promises or vows we make. I agree, but motives only carry some of the weight when it comes to our moral decisions. The above slippery slope is not as much about motives as it is about the nature of the actions. Behind the making of pornography are real people really selling themselves for the sexual gratification of viewers.

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This is why so many women say using porn feels like cheating: the act of seeking out another woman for sexual pleasure—even if she is hidden behind a veil of pixels and a sleazy acting agency—is not a movement towards faithfulness, but away from it. Click To Tweet. However, by saying that using porn is breaking a marriage vow, I am not prescribing a specific reaction we should have to it. The six-step slippery slope presents six different scenarios, each having their own gravity of offense.

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They may all be cheating, but they all show different levels of intensity. First, people often desire the perks of marriage, but marriage vows are not taken seriously. As such, we find ourselves straddling two worlds.

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In the other world, we enjoy the convenience and self-centeredness of solo-sex in front of the computer screen. These two worlds mix like oil and water in our miry hearts. Before long, you will either have to abandon pornography or abandon a genuine spirit of monogamy. Second, people have been blinded by the sense of distance the digital world places between ourselves and the real world.

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We have settled for what Chris Hedges calls an empire of illusion. If your husband or wife is engrossed in porn, you are right to feel like this is cheating.

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He is defrauding you of something that should be your exclusive domain. You are not a prude for thinking this.

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You just take your vows seriously, as everyone should. But where do you go from here? Start by getting educated about the addictive nature of pornography and the steps other couples have taken to take a new direction. I agree with the fundamental concept you address: viewing pornography violates the sanctity of marriage. It moves away from intimacy versus moving towards it, every time. There is a recurring motif on this website of employing theatrics. In a round-about way, you admitted this in a separate comment for an article on this website that covered this idea from the adultery angle.

Articles with spooky Halloween font on the photos, titles and premises saying porn is cheating, porn is adultery, or comments saying digital prostitution, he is defrauding you, etc. Fear, outrage — these are the easiest emotional responses to illicit in an audience. Topics of fear are children i. Then there is the topic of sex. Pornography addiction is an epidemic and software services such as yours are helpful for many. You can validate, empathize, and support emotions and thoughts of husbands and wives struggling with this without using haughty rhetoric.

You can do this. We need it. Thanks for the word of encouragement. I will say, however, that each article has its own intended audience. Unfortunately, I read comments from their wives every day, and it is heartbreaking.

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Other articles that have much more encouraging and positive language are meant to lift the reader out of a state of self-condemnation and toxic shame. As you said, I would be doing a disservice if I meant this article for those who are truly struggling and seeking help.

But that is simply not the intended audience here. Perhaps I need to do a better job of making that crystal clear. I also want to point out that Jesus himself calls the simple act of lust adultery Matthew ; while we would not advocate divorce on the grounds of walking past another person on the street and thinking a lustful thought, what is pornography if not digital prostitution? What is masturbation to porn if not two people or, realistically, two performers and an observer performing sexual acts with their genitals?

Well, Ana, porn use is one of those things that often escalates over time. Blessings, Kay. So then by this any wife that re 50 shades of grey and other such porn books are also cheating correct.

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That is a misunderstanding of the text based on the English translation lacking nuance. Thus, Jesus was not saying that thoughts equated to actual adultery. Once you have determined to acquire the forbidden object of your desire, you have already sinned. That is a key distinction that is missed in the English translations of the Bible where nuance was lost from the Greek.

If we apply that to pornography, one is certainly having lustful thoughts.

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But is the man coveting the woman in the pornography? Has he committed himself to actively seeking her out to act upon his lustful thoughts? Now, some may want to say this is not the same thing as pornography, but we have no reason to assume that conscious sexual thoughts are worse than our subconscious manifesting our desires while we sleep.

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In Deuteronomy, we do not find the hypothetical man being condemned for having committed adultery, but he has rather made himself unclean and must wash himself. If the thoughts or desires themselves are the same as acting out sins, would our deepest desires not count as well? Hi John — it seems dangerous to nuance Scripture in this way.

At what point does one cross from lust to coveting?

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Thanks, Chris. Every Monday my partner watches porn every time I ask him why he does it he says he view it as art to get off on. How do I respond to something like that. You might share with him this article from The Gottman Institute about the impact of porn on relationship intimacy. You might give him your feedback on how his porn use is impacting you, and how that impacts the relationship.

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Then I would say you need to consider your boundaries. Is this what you want in the relationship? Are you willing to live with that? I was very curious as to what legal grounds would be considered as an act of Adultery. Interestingly enough many states have different criterium as to what is considered an adultery act.

Then again I feel this is what ultimately makes your point contentious; having us agree with you at face value. Also considering the nature of this blog and your religious alignment has put a bias on you whether you think so or not.

Strangely enough porn which is viewed by both nunerous men and women have created an egalitarianism view in regards to how each sex views each other. The survey itself asked participants to indentify whether or not they had watched any sort of pornographic type matierals within the last year. To follow it up, it also included questions in regards to attitudes towards the opposite sex not just within the porn industry. As mentioned before the prevailing legal grounds of adultery is having a singular sexual act with another individual whose not your partner.

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