I just want to be left in peace, and if that peace is enhanced by an orgasm, who am I to argue? I want to get my kit off and then get on with my life already. Well, friends, it is my time to shine. In honor mastrubation game self-careself-love, and self-examination, here are a non-zero of ways you can up your masturbation game. People with vaginas often produce their own lubrication when aroused, but sometimes, you may need a little assist. Plus, added lubrication can increase sensation as well as makes insertion easier.
For silicone toys, use oil- or water-based lubes and avoid silicone-based ones because they can degrade silicone toys. For latex toys, use water- or silicone-based lubes because oil-based ones will break them down.
Wap, wap, wap
And when all else fails, nothing like spit: the universal lubricant. Whether you like something buzzy, something penetrative — or both I mean, why not both?
Thanks to the coronavirus keeping folks home, sex toy sales have boomed. You should get in on that action.
Lock the door (and make yourself comfortable)
Gone are the days when pornography catered to the male gaze. Thanks to the internet, erotic videos centering women, nonbinary, and trans points of views exist and thrive.
Search for what turns you on, watch it, and enjoy yourself. Settle in with your favorite romance novel, erotica bookor fan fiction, and get in the mood with sexy words.
There are entire ASMR outlets where you can listen to folks please themselves or others. The lack of visual stimulation and only focusing on the voice and the different breadth of sounds emitted in sex can be incredibly arousing. Something about the seeming taboo of filming a sexual activity — whether for your personal consumption or to share — can enhance your one on one time.
Who says you can only masturbate in bed?
Explore those areas and who knows? See if you can bring your body to the knife edge of orgasm and stop. Then do it all over again.
When you finally do come, the orgasm will be stronger and more powerful. Many of us have been trained to stop once we reach orgasm — but who said we have to?
Try touching other parts of your body as you ride out the high, or try continuing through the overstimulation if you can. No one enjoys a UTI, and if your time involves any penetration of any kind vaginal or analyou run an increased chance passing bacteria from your anus to your vagina — which could lead to an infection.
Give yourself time to marinate in all that oxytocin and serotonin. Luxuriate a bit and let your mind blank or even take a nap.
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